I washed utensils, My SBI Wife cooked Food: Thyrocare founder shares his Marriage Secret

Dr. A Velumani, the founder of Thyrocare, recently highlighted the importance of cooking and shared responsibilities in strengthening relationships. In a heartfelt post on X (formerly Twitter), he spoke about how cooking is more than just a life skill—it plays a key role in building emotional bonds and ensuring marital happiness.
A Tribute to His Late Wife
Dr. Velumani paid tribute to his late wife, Sumathi Velumani, appreciating her dedication to both their families. Despite working at the State Bank of India (SBI), she skillfully balanced her professional and household duties. He fondly recalled that while she managed the cooking, he contributed by washing utensils—something he considered a meaningful gesture in their relationship.
According to Velumani, families with annual incomes between ₹5 lakh and ₹25 lakh benefit the most from home-cooked food. He also pointed out that parents who do not teach their children to cook may regret it later, as food plays a crucial role in emotional well-being and family bonding.
Public Reactions on Cooking and Relationships
His views resonated with many social media users, who shared their thoughts on the importance of cooking. One user mentioned that cooking is not just a skill but a way to strengthen relationships in a way that money cannot. Another user shared a personal experience, stating that they recently advised their child on the significance of cooking and cleaning as essential life skills that also instill discipline.
The Debate Over Home-Cooked vs. Restaurant Food
Zerodha co-founder Nikhil Kamath also weighed in on the topic. He recalled his time in Singapore, where many people either never cooked at home or did not have a kitchen at all. Kamath wondered if India would adopt a similar lifestyle in the future, given the country’s shifting economy and changing habits.
However, Kareena Kapoor Khan’s dietitian had a different perspective. She cautioned against following trends set by the wealthy, emphasizing that home-cooked meals are not just healthier but also help strengthen family relationships.
Kangana Ranaut’s Take on Home-Cooked Food
Actress-turned-politician Kangana Ranaut also spoke about the importance of home-cooked meals. After opening her restaurant, Mountain Story, in Himachal Pradesh, she emphasized the need to preserve India’s traditional food heritage. In an interview, she expressed her concerns over the increasing dependence on food delivery services. She encouraged people to embrace cooking as a way to reconnect with their cultural roots and promote a healthier lifestyle.
Dr. Velumani’s post has sparked a broader discussion on the role of cooking in modern life, with many agreeing that shared responsibilities and home-cooked meals contribute significantly to a happy and fulfilling family life.